We hosted a Pony Club clinic today at our Horse Stables https://www.sequoiahillsstables.com/
The trainer for the day, who gave private 45 minute lessons all morning, and then judged the afternoon show, was Lauren Billys, http://laurenbillys.com/ Lauren represented Puerto Rico in the 2016 Summer Olympics, and is on track for the 2020 Olympics which have now been postponed as you know into 2021.
Lauren is a young lady from Visalia, California, whose grandmother is Puerto Rican, so that earned her the Olympic spot. Imagine--a girl from here, 'in the spotlight'. Her mother, Betsy Billys, was a well-known dermatologist in Visalia before her retirement--she says "I never went in for horses, but she did"
During lunch, Lauren shared 'her story' with a dozen eager young women, and it is a story well worth repeating. She began riding with Laurel George, who is still training at our facility some 25 years later. Laurel attended today with her husband Al, and they were just bursting with pride about this young lady.
As Laurel describes it (in front of Lauren even), Lauren was not a natural rider. Her sister was, and I can relate to the situation where a sibling is better, even much better, at something than you are. You can't hide from it, and there are really but two good answers--One is to persevere and get better and better; the other is to abandon the game and find a new game to play where the sibling doesn't compete so well.
Lauren chose to stay in the game, and her story of perseverance and overcoming handicaps was both heartwarming and affirming of the power of dedication. She shared her emotions and fears along the way, and it was incredible to see the faces of the young ladies attending as they could feel their own histories and agonies.
Her humility, her grace, and her successes are testament to a wonderful path of learning and perseverance.
Years ago, in Park City, Utah, we had the privilege of knowing two young boys, Charlie and Ted, the sons of neighbors and realtors Bill Ligety and Cyndi Sharp. Charlie was the awesome skier-kid; Ted was a little bit less skilled, but loved the sport. Charlie found other pursuits, but Ted persevered. And dedicated himself to learning more and more. And then, to everyone's surprise, he won an Olympic Gold Medal in 2006 for his slalom skiing. And then went on, and on, and on. And surpassed even the greats in American ski history, earning more international medals and awards, and yes, more Olympic medals than even Bode Miller or the Mahre brothers.
And like Lauren, he never lost that sense of humility, grace, and warmth that comes from the satisfaction of doing your best, and then better than your best, by dint of hard work, dedication and perseverance.
You can indeed excel, if you just believe in yourself and give and give and give unstintingly. Sound too good to be true? Not for them, it wasn't. Go for it!